Defining interpersonal violence
For some helpful information, additional definitions and guidelines, visit NotAlone.gov. The following definitions should be helpful, but are not legal definitions of these terms.
Interpersonal violence encompasses the following:
- Relationship or dating violence
- Sexual assault
- Family violence
- Physical violence
- Emotional violence
- Cyber bullying/Online harassment
Some helpful terms that act as a role in interpersonal violence:
Dating violence is any act of violence committed by a person who is or has been in a social relationship of a romantic or intimate nature with the victim. The existence of such a relationship shall be determined based on the victim's statement and with consideration of the type and length of the relationship and the frequency of interaction between the persons involved in the relationship. Two (or more) people may be in a romantic or intimate relationship, regardless of whether the relationship is sexual in nature; however, neither a casual acquaintance nor ordinary fraternization between individuals in a business or social context shall constitute a romantic or intimate relationship.
This term is used when a pattern of controlling behavior of a partner is evidenced in a relationship. The abusive behavior can be incremental over time resulting in the abused partner being isolated from others or made to feel incompetent, ashamed or guilt-ridden. The abuse can be emotional, physical, sexual or any combination thereof. Victims are often unaware that they are in an abusive relationship. Leaving this kind of relationship is extremely difficult, often requiring counseling and a great deal of support.
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Domestic violence means any violent felony or misdemeanor crime committed by a current or former spouse or intimate partner of the victim, a person sharing a child with the victim or a person co-habitating with the victim as a spouse or intimate partner.
Sexual Assault refers to physical sexual acts perpetrated against a person's will or where a person is incapable of giving consent (e.g., due to the student's age or use of drugs or alcohol, or because an intellectual or other disability prevents the student from having the capacity to give consent). A number of different acts fall into the category of sexual violence, including rape, sexual assault, sexual battery, sexual abuse, and sexual coercion. Sexual violence can be carried out by school employees, other students, or third parties. All such acts of sexual violence are forms of sex discrimination prohibited by Title IX. Taken from the United States Department of Education.
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Harassment is any form of unwanted and offensive behavior. This can include physical conduct or written or verbal derogatory or discriminatory statements. Harassment can interfere with an individual's employment, academic performance, university participation, or emotional state. It can create an intimidating, hostile, or offensive environment.
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Stalking refers to intentionally engaging in a course of conduct, directed at a specific person, which is likely to causes a reasonable person to fear for his or her safety or the safety of others or cause that person to suffer substantial emotional damage. It may include, but are not limited to, take the form repeatedly following such person(s), repeatedly committing acts that alarm, cause fear, or seriously annoy such other person(s) and that serve no legitimate purpose, appearing at a person's home or place of business, repeatedly communicating by any means, including electronic means, with such person(s) in a manner likely to intimidate, annoy, or alarm him or her, such as making harassing phone calls, leaving written messages or objects or vandalizing a person's property. Any unwanted contact between two people that directly or indirectly communicates a threat or causes the victim to feel fear can be considered stalking.
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Family Violence can include emotional , physical, and sexual violence by one family or household member on another. Family Violence effects everyone not just the victim. Children who grow up in violent homes greatly risk the possibility of emotional, behavioral and physical problems that last for a lifetime. Depression; anxiety; violence toward peers; suicide attempt; drug & alcohol abuse and running away from home are just some of the issues that stem from the violence in the home.
Physical abuse is contact of one person on another intended to cause unwanted feelings of physical pain, injury, or other physical suffering. Scratching, punching, biting, strangling or kicking are a few examples. Physical violence does not have to leave an external mark to be reported.
Emotional violence is behavior which does not give mutual importance and respect to another person's feelings. It is often the most difficult to pinpoint or identify. Emotional violence includes the refusal to listen to, or denial of, another person's feelings, telling people what they do or do not feel, and ridiculing or shaming their feelings. It happens when one person believes they have a right to control or dominate another person.
Bullying is aggressive behavior that involves unwanted, negative actions. Bullying is a pattern of behavior repeated over time and an imbalance of power or strength. Bullying can take on various forms such as: derogatory comments and bad names, social exclusion or isolation, lies and false rumors, and threatened or forced to do things you don't want to do.
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Cyber bullying is using the Internet, mobile phone or other digital technologies to harm others. Cyber bullying can happen 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and can reach a person even when he or she is alone. It can happen any time of the day or night. Cyber bullying messages and images can be posted anonymously and distributed quickly to a very wide audience; it can be very difficult to delete once it is posted.
Retaliation against individuals who file a complaint under the Code of Student Conduct, including Title IX complaints, who serve as a witness or who participate in a student conduct or Title IX proceeding in any manner is prohibited. Participants who experience any form of intimidation, coercion, threats or discrimination as the result of their participation in an investigation should report the incident to the Office of Student Conduct and/or University’s Title IX Coordinator as applicable.
Affirmative consent is a knowing, voluntary, and mutual decision among all participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent can be given by words or actions, as long as those words or actions create clear permission regarding willingness to engage in the sexual activity. Silence or lack or resistance, in and of itself, does not demonstrate consent. The definition of consent does not vary based upon a participant's sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
The use of alcohol and other drugs can have unintended consequences for both parties involved. Alcohol and other drugs can create an atmosphere of confusion over whether consent is freely and affirmatively given. The use of alcohol and other drugs never makes someone at fault for being sexually assaulted. When both parties are under the influence of alcohol or other substances or is intoxicated, the individual who initiated sexual contact is identified as the aggressor. The use of alcohol or other drugs will never function as a defense for any behavior that violates a person's rights.